Calm before the Storm

Ballbusting At Home

2012-01-09T11:04:00.000-08:00

Mistress, I am curious to try ballbusting at home with my wife, but I don't think she is comfortable being as mean to me as you are. We tried rough sex, and she knows I like high heels... but how can I make her feel comfortable being the controlling one I want her to be?

Well it sounds to me like you have a pretty good understanding of some
of the things which get you going. The heels turn you on... is she
willing to wear them? (Have you made the effort to purchase her a
quality pair to make this more exciting for you both) Next, you said
you have openly disclosed your interest in rough sex. She likes it
too, but you say she holds back. Thats pretty normal when one is
first exploring this concept. Until she learns how hard to push you,
and her own strength, as well as hearing your honest expectations and
response... then she won't be able to fulfill your fantasy.

What seems missing here is communication about your desires. Anytime
you try something new in the bedroom, its a good idea to have a
conversation about it later on. Try to encourage her efforts, even if
there is a negative critique that needs to be verbalized, start with
something she did right. For example: That was really exciting when
you started to get a little strict/rough with me, it really turned me
on. I thought you meant business when you grabbed me by the balls.
To be honest, (this is where you can ask for more intensity, gently)
if you had grabbed them even harder at that moment I would have let
you do it. In that state, with you in total control, I can't even
feel pain. Instead I get a total adrenaline rush from feeling my
power taken away from me. I actually could have taken a lot more
before needing you to stop. (then here I may close with another
positive) The look on your face when you had me by the balls was
amazing, you're always beautiful but when you look controlling and
powerful I really melt/get excited/turned on. (however you want to put
this, make it a compliment that encourages her and suggests trying it
again.)

Then listen to her response. She may explain she was afraid to hurt you, etc... But then she always may confess how having the control made her feel hot, etc. If she does, encourage that response. Then try and establish a plan to have a safeword in case it becomes too painful. Explain the reason for a safeword is to allow both of you to let go and roleplay a bit more.

If she knows you are actually OK, then she will be able to turn off that automatic
protector button she has that goes off when her mate is being harmed. Choose
a word together. Something like her middle name, or the color RED, or
something silly if you prefer, like marshmallow. Whatever it is, make
it some word you don't normally use in bed, thats easily distinguishable from
more, yes, no, mmmm, etc... that way the role-play can ensue and the safety
can be trusted enough for her to venture further next time.

Let the kinky games begin!

Bound In Boston

2011-09-27T22:26:00.001-07:00

This past weekend I ventured off to a rope bondage convention. Two full days of workshops, presenters from around the country teaching lots of new knots and harnesses to learn; adding to my repertoire.

I'm currently rather interested in incorporating rope bondage into scenes so if you make an appointment to see me for a session and check the box Mistresses Choice, then you will likely wind up in full or partial suspension completely at the mercy of me and my careful knotted ropes.

Once immobilized, the rest is up to me... Will I choose to exploit those tender little balls so vulnerable and exposed? Will I make an example out of you and stripe your behind with my cane... Or maybe tease and tantalize your chastised male equipment just for my own sadistic pleasure. Whatever I choose to do to you, you won't have much choice in the matter, dangling completely helpless and in my clutches.

*(limits always respected.)

Chastity Corner

2011-09-27T22:15:00.001-07:00

---- Letter from one of my kept pets, enjoy. -GDS

It has taken the better part of my life to realize my submissive sexuality, but only a few incredible hours with Goddess to know that it is She i will totally surrender it to. Here is my story.

For me, chastity is an offering, a gift, a tribute a sacrifice. For it to be meaningful, it must be given to someone; dedicated to them so they can take pleasure in knowing they have the ultimate control of someone. Once the lock clicks shut and the key is surrendered, it is a daily, hourly, moment to moment reminder that one person controls your manhood completely. Suddenly, all thoughts focused on sex are detoured, shifted to that person. Immediately after 'horny', there is 'locked!' and then 'Her'. And it goes round and round to where all of those thoughts and urges that used to result in masturbation now become thoughts of her and of your complete surrender to her.

my journey of discovery into began several years ago, on a trip to Madrid. Ever horny, especially on the road, i happened upon a brothel. The place was busy, with men regularly walking in and out, two burly guards at the door. It struck me how easy it would be to step in, choose a woman and fuck. All too easy, it seemed. After all, one of the great joys of sex was the dance, the struggle, the uncertainty. The clash of pure hormone driven urgency and the subtlety of the mental challenge to score. The dance. So i walked away, back to my hotel, where the internet introduced me to the world of male chastity. i immersed myself in web page after web page, discovering the world of Feminine Domination, Orgasm Denial and enforced Male Chastity. Before leaving i had ordered my first Chastity device and traveled home in a horny, submissive frenzy, anxious to lock my cock away. i was completely certain that i had found my answer, my true sexual self. Since i was without a Keyholder, i began to train myself in the hopes i would find the perfect Mistress some day.

First came the adjustment to the cage. The awkwardness of the hard plastic between my legs, the pinching of my balls, the morning erections that woke me in pain. But, with time, it became familiar, the norm. All of the small daily details of being in Chastity, the click of the lock as it rattles on my cage, ever searching for a sit down toilet, touching the hard case that isolates me from myself, become constant reminders of Her, my Mistress to be.

Then there was knowing my rhythm. i was an every other day masturbator for years. Initially, it was hard to go 4,5,6 days without cumming. I would be constantly reaching to touch myself, suddenly reminded that play time was over. Gradually the time lengthens; 7 days, 10 days, 14 days, 30 days. There is a clear pattern to my libido. After 3-4 days, i am moderately horny, pleasurably so. At a week, things began to get more serious. i find myself distracted by my cock, beginning to become preoccupied. i can feel myself becoming submissive, especially in the presence of women. Oddly enough, i believe women can sense this state, submissive and serving. They seem to acknowledge it with a knowing look, perhaps a smile, but i believe they know i am now longer threatening, knowing i am inferior to them. By day 14, i am in full semen submission. There is a feeling of floating in horniness, a craving for submission, for surrender. my thoughts turn to Her control, Her manipulating my willing body, enjoying the power of accepting my gift.

i reached out to Goddess after seeing her website and i was so pleased and excited when she agreed to session with me. o/Our first few sessions were eye opening for me. She seemed to know exactly my limits, my feelings. She fed my fantasies and started many new ones. It was o/Our third session when it happened. i was spread on the St. Andrew's cross, in heels and stockings and gagged. She was toying with me and i was falling into sub-space. i looked into Her eyes and fell into her. An immediate connection of trust, admiration, dedication. She could have asked anything of me at that moment, i was Her slave. It was o/Our next session when i knew it was She that i would offer my Chastity surrender. On the spanking bench, She working behind me, i was being outfitted with a humbler. Suddenly i felt my body go weak, limp, and a feeling of willing surrender overcame me. Unknown to me, She was crushing my balls in a vise and i was Her's forever. When i left that day, i resolved to ask Her to be my Keyholder.

When i see my Mistress again, it will be after 21 days of dedicated, devotional denial. I am swirling in a semen induced submissive state, craving for Her to handle me, torment me and amuse herself with my desperation. Uncertain as always and yet sure that She will know exactly where to take me on my journey. i dream She will grant me the gentle, dripping release that will come as She probes my man-pussy. It will be as She wishes.

In Service,

paul
caged4her

Check your Bucket List...

2011-09-27T20:19:00.000-07:00

...at the door.

I'm sure many of you have a list of the things you'd like to try at least once in life. Not surprisingly, visiting a Dominatrix is a common one that shows up on many a bucket list.

I imagine the process one must go through to research the topic that has struck a chord in their fantasies and then the selection process to find the right Mistress who can twist your dreams into reality. Does she really exist?

That entirely depends. It can be when you are looking to have an authentic experience that flows rather naturally; a session which is spontaneously made up of the energy in the room, exploring interests and having your buttons pressed, while leaving all the decisions of how and when up to your Mistress. Being patient enough to allow Me to discover your kinks is always a great way to build trust and develop a stronger connection.

However, I also realize it takes a lot of courage to finally reach out and admit that you'd like to explore things you've only fantasized about... thus given the opportunity, you're hoping to make sure you get to dive right in and try all the things you've had running through your mind.

**If this is the type of session you're looking for, kindly run this past me in advance, so I know what to expect. Since you are hoping to work off a bucket list I will get my clip board so you can list them all. Each will be explored, assessed, and your performance will be judged, then merited. This experiment will be conducted and you will finally be able to check your Dominatrix curiosity off the bucket list. (Don't attempt to manipulate me during the session to walk through your fantasies at your direction or you will be throttled before even having the chance to check anything off the list.)

That being said, good communication is paramount to a good experience with your Domme. Yes I want to hear about your fantasies, and yes I want to hear your reflections after each session to know the progress I am making with you. I enjoy pulling reactions out of you... so do tell me what will get the best response, and what you would rather we stay away from. But don't attempt to top from the bottom. Doing so you could cheat yourself out of a wonderful experience making a total power exchange unlikely.

No dear, discussing your interests is in no way topping from the bottom. I don't want to have to play guessing games. If you know what you like and what your kinks are by all means, do tell me. What I'm referring to is not sitting up mid session and saying mistress are you going to sound me now or mistress could you please spend 60% of our time penetrating my holes and 25% of our time smothering me, then allow me the rest of the time to stare at and try to grope your ass.... Those folks get disappointed, and that is who I try to weed out through screening, but on occasion one slips through. To my dismay. My advice is to be in the moment, enjoy (and let me enjoy) the gift of submission you are giving to me. Once you try to make too many demands while in session, it is almost like taking back that gift. It leaves me feeling rather unable to think at all about what I might want to do to you... and isn't that the point?

Fall into Place

2011-09-13T21:17:00.000-07:00

This month things are really starting to come together. Many of you have realized that securing a regular time in my calendar - or at least semi-regular, is the best way to ensure that you will be one of the lucky slaves who makes it through my doors. Those of you that have not, may be noticing that its getting harder and harder to get a hold of me. I am in the process of training an assistant to help with the many facets of communication, which can be a lot to manage. I appreciate your patience during this time and welcome any of your feedback regarding how I could improve upon in the areas of scheduling and communications.

Although at one time I could accommodate same day appointments or even 24hr notice, over these past few months my schedule has begun to fill up 1-2 weeks in advance. That is largely due to my preference for longer sessions averaging 2-3hrs each. I've also had a serge of requests for extended sessions, overnights, and visits from abroad. Know that I am trying my very best to juggle my schedule.

As one would expect of anyone juggling in 8 inch heels... there were a few minor setbacks that impacted my ability to meet every request. For those of you who were concerned, my ankle is on its way to a full recovery. And thanks to Dr John, I've managed to work my regular chiropractic visits back into my schedule to make sure I don't get laid up again with back pain. *(Anyone questioning how I have back issues at my age clearly has never seen the shoes I wear. Apply here for a session to worship my entire collection or take me shopping for my latest pair.)

Fetish Con Tampa

2011-08-05T21:08:00.000-07:00

Last night I returned home from a week of sun and fun in Tampa, Florida. The main event was a Fetish convention, hosted at the Hyatt Regency. Lots of great vendors and models attended. I had the opportunity to meet some new photographers, session with some attending fans, and fit in some photo shoots all in just a few short days.

Stay tuned for more shots like this one taken by Matta, and look for me in the next issue of VonGuttenberg Magazine which should be hitting Hudson newstands around the world mid fall. I will be heading down to NYC for a shoot and hope to also meet up with Mistress Absolute of London. If you'd like to see me for a session while I'm in the New York area, or if you happen to have seats to a Yankees/RedSox game, send an email for consideration to Deanna@SadisticVixen.com

On my travels I connected with RAO Entertainment and now have an interest in modelling their lattest line of trendy lounge wear, Stitched Heart, which can be seen on facebook. Lots of great stuff in the works... Don't look away, or you might miss where I'm headed next! ;-)

Party at Pumps

2011-07-19T08:39:00.000-07:00

Last night was the final dinner party from a long week of birthday festivities. I felt very loved and attended to this past Wednesday at Pumps which is hosted weekly by the lovely Mistress Delilah. Always a fun place to go out for a drink mid-week and see friends, on occasion this venue also hosts some kinky fun. Miss Vivian Darkbloom and Boselixir put together a sensational line-up of bare bottoms for me to lay across my knee and spank with my various paddles. Friends and slaves traveled from afar to make this birthday a special one. Afterall you only turn 29 once, right. ;-)

This picture, courtesy of Roperider, was one of many taken throughout the evening by the talented local photographer, who I fully intend to work with again on future collaborations. Whenever I turned around, there he was ready to capture the action. In case this year takes a toll on my memory at least I know I can count on Roperider to preserve the best moments forever!

I got many wonderful cards and gifts from attending guests. Some of my favorites were the Madonna book, a BDSM songs mix CD, a pair of "Editor" pants, seamed Marlenes by Wolfords, signature Paddles, a framed picture of (none other than) Moi, and a Weber grill. Oh yeah, did I mention that my grill came with two zero gravity chairs? Of course I had to have a BBQ with them over the weekend. Saturday night dinner at the Capital Grille was marvelous. I couldn't eat that well every week and still fit into my latex, but it sure was a treat for the senses.

Thanks to all who helped make my birthday special.

July Visitors

2011-07-11T01:01:00.000-07:00

This month is full of surprises for me! As the presents are beginning to arrive (yes, its that time of year again, but if you hadn't even noticed that I'm another year older than I guess all that working out at the gym is paying off afterall!) and friends are making their way to see me to celebrate together.

The lovely Lady Elizabeth will be traveling with Miss Lynn to share in the Pumps festivities this coming Wednesday night. Show up if you dare, all naughty boys and girls... well, and maybe the good ones too, will be taking my birthday spankings. Bless their little asses.

A slave by the name of gregulator will be visiting from LA for a couple of days... Of course I will intend to bust his balls immediately upon landing at Logan. Did you know its a great cure for JetLag? Nothing like a nice strong kick in the nut sack to bring those airline nuts back up and remind you what time zone you're in!

Then the following week I get a special visit from Mistress Aleana, from Charlotte, NC. If you are not yet familiar with this lovely Goddess, then check out her videos with Syren Productions and MORE coming soon... Since she will only be here for a few days from July 21st through July 24th, make sure to get all double session requests to Me early, that is if you can handle the two of us!

Calm before the Storm: Dungeon Going Green

2011-06-21T10:45:00.000-07:00

Calm before the Storm: Dungeon Going Green

Dungeon Going Green

2011-06-21T10:16:00.000-07:00

With so much downsizing around us, I'd prefer to take this opportunity to reflect on expansion and growth instead. While I expand my slaves functionality and allow one to feel useful, the dungeons resources are in turn conserved. After all, forcing the slave to use a tongue and toothbrush to do the cleaning and mere breath to dry the equipment, uses far less paper towels and is more energy efficient.

My other efforts to go green include replacing traditional porcelain toilets with human toilets. As I learned yesterday, the human toilet is far less rigid when kicked. With their ability to swallow many consecutive mouthfuls resulting in fewer flushes per day, I am saving gallons of water and leaving more room for golden nectar.

I have additionally demanded that while in service to me, no slave shall be permitted to use a vehicle to run my errands. Besides conserving the precious petroleum gasoline, the environment remains cleaner, omitting less fumes. This serves to further reduce my carbon footprint while increasing my own footprint on their already reduced male egos.

Since silicone has become a valuable resource, I have chosen to minimize the amount of lube wasted on slaves comfort instead relying heavily upon my own spit - and of course reserving the silicone based lubricants for more important things; like shining my latex and sky high boots.

Should you care to assist me in my efforts to go green, bear in mind that every mouthful helps.

Fetish Factory 16th Anniversary Party

2011-06-01T17:33:00.000-07:00

Today I am home for one day of rest and relaxation. Following a whirlwind weekend of festivities to celebrate Glen & Donna's 16th anniversary event, hosted by Fetish Factory. Once more friends from around the world gathered at the Sheraton in Fort Lauderdale, poured into their latex and put their slaves on leashes before piling onto buses to be brought to the events at nearby clubs.

One of the memorable highlights this year will certainly be the vac-cube, which Nemy and I assembled and demonstrated poolside all day on Sunday at the Pervy Pool Party. Many got to share with us their first latex bondage experience as we zipped them into my suitcase-sized dice cube and began to vacuum all the air out around them. The full suspension, with little to no pressure on bodyparts - felt almost like an out of body experience, some said.

Stay tuned for a video demonstration followed by an interview with Latex Nemesis which should appear on the FF website (www.thefetishparty.com)

The Storm Collection

2011-05-20T05:26:00.000-07:00

Over the past year I've been working with Latex Nemesis to custom design some of my own clothing. She has such an amazing understanding for the fabric which I adore. It has been such an incredible opportunity to have involvement in the final look I want to achieve.

Having latex made to fit perfectly against my curves instead of trying to fit into something made ready-to-wear in preset sizes has allowed me the freedom to take my rubber fun to the next level. Nemy helped me discover which colors were best suited to my complexion, ensuring my final presentation made maximum impact.

Those slaves who play with me often, know what an important role impact plays in my scenes. What better way to contain my dominant energy then to wrap my toned body up in shiny luxurious rubber? Durable enough to withstand multiple hours of wear, this line of latex being added to my wardrobe has enabled me to add more tight shiny seduction to my already sadistic scenes. Add lube and shine!

I am pleased to announce that the entire array of outfits she created will be showcased in a few weeks at the upcoming Smack Fashion Show, on Friday June 3th in NYC. For more info on this event: http://xris-smack.com/2011-05-18.

Visiting Guest Dominas

2011-04-30T10:50:00.000-07:00

This past weekend a few of my lucky slaves had the opportunity to session with Myself and the beautiful Mistress Gabriella, who was visiting from Charlotte, NC. Her style meshed well with mine. She enjoyed exploring my dungeon space and getting my unsuspecting subs into some unexpected predicaments.

We especially enjoyed our extended session with my slave, who've I've come to affectionately call stretch-my-balls-steve, who was in dire need of a strict dose of Corporal Punishment. We laid into him with our canes and paddles, making sure his ass belonged to Us. It had been over a month since his last session, and I could just tell he had been on the prowl for a change of pace. After all variety is the spice of life... Soon after he arrived, he was reminded with a cold hard smack in the face who was in charge, and he easily submitted his man parts to their rightful owner. As I squeezed his balls tightly in my hand, he confessed that he had been looking at other Mistresses new to Eros Boston, and had even contacted a few of them.

After hearing that, I gave his hard cock a quick slap. "Who else but Me knows how to deliver the cruel treatment you crave, slave?" I gave another slap to his cock, even harder this time. "Oh, what was that? I can't hear you through your gag, slave. Let me answer that for you: NO ONE. So if you know what's good for you, you will stop perusing the internet for distractions and focus that pent up frustration on being a better slave to Me, your Mistress. Now get on your knees and beg for forgiveness while I cane your ass!"

Then he got what he deserved. We brutally delivered stroke after stroke, synchronized and precise. As we watched the skin rise and swell in the impressions of our implements, the temperature started to rise under our leather corsets. To see him suffer like that, strapped down and unable to diffuse the impact, completely helpless... it was such a turn on. Gabriella winked at me, and I knew at that moment she was just as excited as I was.

We continued beating him with every paddle in the room, then I took out my violet wand to finish him off, lighting his sore ass cheeks on fire from the sharp electric surges. "Beg for more, slave!" Trained to do as he is told, and afraid of what might follow if he did not, our slut cooperatively stammered, "Please shock my asshole again Mistresses, I beg you for MORE!" We giggled as we pushed the tip of the wand along his inner thigh, delighting in the fact that he was mere putty in our hands.

Domme Trips

2011-04-26T13:26:00.000-07:00

Check out this website: www.DommeTrips.com for more pictures of me enjoying the beautiful carribean air as I dominate slaves and whip some sense into the locals.

Dominican Domination

2011-04-15T17:32:00.000-07:00

If you weren't there, you missed a good time. The newest event in the local fetish community: DommeTrips.com hosted by the lovely Mistress Gabriella, who will be visiting Boston later this month. Our group was on the smaller side this time, which allowed for many of us who have been seeing each other for years at larger events to take out time to get to know each other better. More quaint. More intimate. Far better Mistress to slave ratio... At least I know my slave, brutus had an unforgettable time. My own fun was limited only by the toothache which persisted through most of the trip, causing me to make plans for removal upon landing on US soil. Never again will I let a naughty molar ruin my fun!

Even without cocktails or sun (neither mix with antibiotics) I still managed to Dominate the Dominican Republic. ;-) Stay tuned for pictures and a few awesome videos, footage shot on location by Syren Productions.

Between relays and obstacle courses, teabag racing and water balloon catapulting; us Dommes really put the slaves to the test. Only the strongest survived. By the end of the week, newly conditioned, more enduring slaves emerged from within these men. We taught a sissy to enjoy ballbusting, encouraged a simple masochist to become more service oriented, and even convinced a foot fetishist to endure underwater trampling.

There will be another trip coming up this fall. This time in our home country and only for a long weekend, for those of you who can't take off a full week. The next trip hosted by Caliente Resort in Tampa, FL will be clothing optional (of course!) while that bit you chose to wear is preferred to be made from rubber. Hope to flog you there!

An Honest Question from A Slave

2011-03-07T21:31:00.000-08:00

"Mistress are you just an actress, or are you really enjoying yourself when we play" - Good question. Well, I suppose I am an actress of sorts, or at least an aspiring one in my fetish videos. However, in sessions what you see is what you get. That is why I do such an extensive screening process over email first to get to know my prospective playthings better and make sure that we are indeed compatible. If you see me having fun, with a glow in my eye as I torture your nipples, good chance I am feeling a pretty good Domme space from getting you into your sub space. Its no coincidence that you feel an intense connection during this brief span of time, when you may catch a quick glimpse of me during one of my fiercest, most animated moments. That is no act, my pet. I find it incredibly convenient that I am able to bring you to a place of elation, while I am really just following my sadistic urges to make you hurt in places I know are attached to your pleasure zones. Why - because I can. Because you let me, because you wouldn't dream of stopping me because it turns you on too much to see that I'm aroused by exploiting your weaknesses. Of course, I look forward to pushing more boundaries...

Slaves Corner: A story of Ball Stretching

2011-02-22T21:08:00.000-08:00

The First time I met, Goddess Deanna she told me that I had inadequate balls and that they needed to be stretched. I guess I am like a lot of guys out there where my balls don’t hang very low and hang tightly under that cock. So, Goddess Deanna has been working with me to stretch my balls. There is something erotic about the feeling of having my balls stretched. It’s intense and it adds to the control factor as, Goddess Deanna continues to train me. I keep my cock and balls shaven which allows the skin to stretch even more and when I am at work I wear rubber ball stretchers to keep the process going. When I am at home I wear the rubber ball stretchers as I sleep and at work some times I put two rubber ball stretchers on, one on top of each other. I can feel the skin start to burn just a bit during the day as the skin is stretching. I have been doing this for a couple months now and already I have noticed a difference with my balls and the skin seems to be looser.

During session time with, Goddess Deanna she has been continuing to break me down and build me back up as I learn how to serve her and better myself as a slave. Since, Goddess Deanna has been working on stretching my balls lately she has decided it would be good to start weight training with my balls. So far we have been using ball and chains, master locks as well as single weights. I believe at the moment I have used all the weights Goddess has at the moment all hung from balls at the same time. As she hangs the weights one at a time from my balls, I have to say it feels amazing. I can feel the skin around my balls starting to stretch as Goddess adds on more weight. I would like to get to the point where my balls can hold even more weight and make my balls hang even further down. Just remember all you subs out there to breathe, concentrate and build a trust with your mistress. It does feel pretty darn good having weights hung from my balls.

I love the feeling and power of a dominate woman. The feeling of, Goddess Deanna reaching down and grabbing me by the balls as she starts to squeeze as she looks me in the eye and asks, ”now slave, who do these balls belong to?” is mind blowing. When Goddess doesn’t feel she has gotten my full attention, she reaches up and starts twisting my nipples, steps back and starts kicking me in the balls. I feel her control and it starts to get my precum flowing. The harder she kicks the more intense it gets and the more she is in control.

As a slave in training, I have thought about what it would be like to give, Goddess Deanna complete control right down to my release. I recently bought a metal chastity device and am waiting for my next session to be under and key. But in the mean time just the thought of my cock being in a metal cage with out being able to touch it gets me excited. At work I have thought about it often and one day I was thinking about what it would be like to have my cock put in a metal chastity device and my precum started to flow. It ran right out of my peephole, right down my inner thigh and stopped just above my knee. I could feel the wetness in my pants as my cock was rock hard. Just knowing that my release would be up to, Goddess Deanna and that I would be giving her complete control was intense. Giving, Goddess Deanna total control is a rush, intense and orgasmic.

Valentines Voyeurs

2011-02-15T13:27:00.000-08:00

So many folks were in awe of how I chose to spend my Valentines Day. I awoke to my lovely wife, Lexi. Truly a Goddess like myself. Her beautiful corn silk hair resting upon a pillow that had been fluffed just so the night before by our rubber baby puppy2. Looking down I could see him too, snuggled up with his rubber bone at the foot of our bed, baby ballgag hanging from his drool stained chin. Such a happy family we are. A few hours together, and then off once more to our busy lives in 3 different cities.

~ "Princess, wouldn't it be divine if we found a slave who could tend to our dream house, with a black picket fence and a dungeon in the basement;" Princess asks as she raises her head sleepily, swats puppy away from her feet and snatches his little blanket from him. "Bad puppy!" in the same breath. "you will get NO attention from your mommies today!" Once again, puppy has eaten our shoes in his sleep. Such is the life of our cuckolded rubber baby puppy. Nothing but constant abuse, from not just one, but two cruel owners.

Get back in your place right now! I am taking away your rubber puppy suit, and you are going to the mall to replace my Louboutins immediately! The heels had better be red, and you had better be back before I'm thru with my breakfast or the shade of my heels will pale in comparison to the RED I will turn your disobedient ass with my hairbrush! - I shout something along these lines as puppy scurries into his boy clothes and hurries to the door, hanging his head in shame as he covers his supercilious tail with his hands which are now both clasped tightly behind him as he had been trained. "WHAT are you waiting for?!!!" - his eyes bulge in fear, and I hear the door close behind him before I could blink.

"Well, princess," I say to Lexi, "thats twice now, how ever are we going to train this dreaded puppy not to ruin our things? He didnt even learn after the brainwashing light therapy sessions we enforced upon him yesterday." She nods and takes out her iPad, quickly drafting an ad to replace the inadequate slave. "Lesbian Power Couple Seeks Rubber-Baby-Puppy" - Don't worry, Princess, he is disposable. I'm sure we can find a new one in no time. - she smirks as she hits send, launching the ad worldwide. ~

What does the BDSM Emblem mean?

2011-02-01T16:11:00.000-08:00

The BDSM emblem has no "obvious" symbolism because it was created to beenigmatic. To the vanilla observer who would be put off by BDSM, it is merelyan attractive piece of jewelry. Thus, we can wear it freely as a friendlysalute, nod, and wink to other BDSMers we should happen to pass on the sidewalksand in the hallways of our daily lives.

To the insider, however, the Emblem is full of meaning.

The three divisions represent the various threesomes of BDSM. First of all,the three divisions of BDSM itself: B&D, D&S, and S&M. Secondly,the three-way creed of BDSM behavior: Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Thirdly,the three divisions of our community: Tops, Bottoms, and Switches.

It is this third symbolism that gives meaning to the holes in each unit.Since BDSM is at the very least a play style and at its greatest a love style,the holes represent the incompleteness of any individual within the BDSMcontext. However "together" and "whole" individuals may be, there remainsa void within them that can only be filled by a complimentary other. BDSMcannot be done alone.

The resemblance to a three-way variation on the Yin-Yang symbol is notaccidental. As the curved outline of Yin and Yang represent the hazy borderbetween where one ends and the other begins, so do the curved borders hererepresent the indistinct divisions between B&D, D&S, and S&M.

The metal and metallic color of the medallion represents the chains or ironsof BDSM servitude/ownership. The three inner fields are black, representinga celebration of the controlled dark side of BDSM sexuality. The curved lines themselves can be seen as a stylized depiction of a lashas it swings, or even an arm in motion to deliver an erotic spanking. Theall-embracing circle, of course, represents the overlying unity of it alland the oneness of a community that protects its own.

Polyamory = Social Evolution?

2011-01-26T16:33:00.000-08:00

"The Lifestyle refers to social/sexual relationships involving multiple partners - sometimes anonymous, sometimes standing - or, put more plainly, swinging. Recent conversations led me to consider whether Lifestyle proponents constitute a deviant subculture or in fact a logical progression toward a more natural state of relationship.

To even consider such a theory, one has to suspend their natural tendency towards the rigid moral conventions to which we have all been socialized and look at this notion from a completely objective standpoint. That is undeniably difficult, but consider it rationally for a moment.

Very few species on the planet are actually monogamous. One presumes that this is because monogamy would not be evolutionarily advantageous in terms of perpetuating a species. Marriage is a social convention imposed to legitimize human sexual activity, which, at some point in our history became something to be regulated, if not disdained.

Infidelity - be it actual, emotional or objective - is almost a given within our culture. Doesn't monogamy seem contradictory to some primal hardwiring which is innately driven to perpetuate the species? What if we were to characterize infidelity not as a moral transgression, but, rather, as unnatural restriction imposed onto a system which is inherently unwilling to adopt such a rigidity? Is it possible that we were never meant to be monogamous at all, which means in turn that all of the variations of infidelity -- whether they be actual, emotional or objective -- would be redefined as mere results of trying to fit a square peg into a round hole?

Doesn't it make sense that, at some point in our social evolution, polyamory would be re-introduced as the logical standard and that such a lifestyle is actually more in line with that evolutionary imperative to perpetuate the species."

-Michael Formica, Psychology Today

Foot Fetishist Fun

2010-12-13T22:35:00.000-08:00

Um, can you say sexy? Yeah, this was a very fun shoot with the talented Collin Rae, world renowned, published foot photographer and personal friend. This was a collage of some of his favorites from the sexy shoot I did with Lexi Sindel. Two hot dommes reading smut magazines, with their beautifully pedicured bare feet out stretched and in clear focus. Try not to drool, okay foot bitches.

The Lion Tamer

2010-11-22T14:33:00.000-08:00

I hope you were all able to catch your favorite Mistress perform this past weekend at the Variant Ball. Tara Emory and I showcased our kinky sadistic talents in a "Lion Taming" theme performance to the delight of all those in attendance. My custom designed catsuit was made by Latex Nemesis, it featured three tone, forty ply rubber with built in stockings with back-seams and was transparent in all the right places. This unique one of a kind design truly helped illuminate my dominance on stage as I tamed the caged wild lioness into her place! Our show was a whip-cracking, ass smacking display of our blended styles, setting the mood for a night of slippery fetish fun.

The ballot also included a fabulously devious performance by Jean Bardot, The Rubber One, who is also a fellow ClubDom mistress dishing out brutal punishments to misbehaved slaves worldwide. Her latex nun show proved to be a naughty addition to the stage, causing spontaneous eruptions in the crowd.

Be sure to stay tuned for more pictures and video of the performance, which will be featured again at Club Jaded in a few months.

Advice for a newcomer...

2010-11-18T22:50:00.000-08:00

A question I received via email recently: "Hi Ms Deanna, I'm new at this and I need help and have questions in regards to training this man whom would like me to be his Mistress and train him but I honestly have no idea where or how to begin. So if you don't mind talking to me or showing where to buy the clothes and so forth that will be great. Even it's a class or group I'll take anything right now. He's just not obedient in anyway. I need help..."

My reply: I recommend checking out fetlife.com it's free and you may find a lot of answers to your questions there. Once you've joined, add yourself to the Boston BDSM group and you will find announcements for some local fetish events to attend. Try a munch or pub night first if you're concerned that you don't have the right attire yet. A lot of my clothes are custom made or ordered online, but you may find a few things locally at Hubba Hubba, Dorothy's, or Eros Boutique. Then you can check out the fetish flea coming up in a few months - you'll find some great deals there on toys and floggers, even some nice corsets.

As for how to go about making him obey you, that may take some time. Be firm with your demands and expectations of him, setting rules and boundaries for his behavior. Try giving him some simple tasks to complete, specifying exactly how you'd like them done. (for example, clean my boots with your tongue, and I expect you to start from the heel and work your way up...) Likely he wants to be obedient, or he never would have suggested that you be his Mistress. However, he will never know how to serve you properly unless you tell him what you expect of him and make sure to scold him when he does something wrong or falls short of those expectations.

Punishments can work quite effectively , although there are some submissive men who respond better to privileges being taken away as opposed to obedience training in the form of physical discipline. I believe in using both. Set goals for his improvement and be sure to give him incentives. Such as the chance to worship your divine feet once he has completed his chore of polishing your boots and washing your stockings to your specifications. As motivating as giving him something to look forward to can be, in turn giving him something to fear will be just as useful in gaining his adherence to your rules. Don't make idle threats or he will begin to doubt your readiness to carry out his punishments. Let him know his inappropriate actions won't be tolerated and then follow up with a warning of what will happen if he continues such behavior or fails to satisfy your requests of him. A good old fashioned spanking usually does the trick. Although creative punishments that fit the crime can often sink in even deeper sometimes. (For example, if he puts a run in your pantyhose while washing them, make him wear the ruined pair in front of you.)

Remember he is looking to be guided and wants to please you. Keep in mind there is no one way to train him, but that you will mold him to your liking to do any tasks that you deem him worthy of. Whether they be degrading or otherwise humbling in some way, he will do them with pride simply because he adores you and is eager to have you train him. Once you have led him through your unique system of learned responses, ultimately you will have yourself a well behaved little pet which in turn will be rewarding to you as well.

Good luck on your journey together...

Dominating The Garage

2010-11-18T11:32:00.000-08:00

Two Kickass Dommes you will NEVER fuck. Ha.

2010-11-18T11:22:00.000-08:00

If you've been pondering lately how it is that my recent picture updates have been full of sexy revealing totally awesome and shiny new latex outfits, the answer lies in the fact that I am now happily acquainted with the beautiful and talented Nemie, owner designer and creator of Latex Nemesis Fashions. Holy shit, is this girl AWESOME. Not only is she Dominant and bitchy, two qualities I completely relate to, but she is mega talented and super reliable. She understands latex like she was born in it. And she is able to create unique designs just from a description of what is desired. So, little piggies, if there is something special you have already fantasized about me wearing for a session or even a picture, you may now go directly to her site and make custom latex orders, for Moi, your favorite sexy Latex Mistress. (go on... I'm waiting!)

For those of you who also enjoy the feel of tight rubber against your own skin, in addition to seeing and worshiping it against mine, get ready to be REALLY excited. (in fact, you may want to get out that chastity device and lock yourself in NOW) Nemesis has recently started making me a custom vac bed, so you will soon have the option of getting into some really intense complete latex sensory deprivation. I will wear my sexy catsuit (pictured here) during our session to add to the full rubber experience. Wow, are you boys lucky or what?

Worship My Boots, bitches!

2010-10-28T20:09:00.000-07:00

Fall has arrived... which means lots of boot wearing. Mmm, thigh high boots, ankle boots, stilletto heeled boots, army boots, booties.

In case any of you little piggies were wondering, I'm a size 6.5 and I prefer at least a 3 inch heel.

Enjoy this nice weather we're having!

Foot Diaries - Leaving The Airport

2010-10-01T05:29:00.000-07:00

Leaving the Airport.

As Goddess Deanna's words hung in the air, She reached into Her purse, and removed a small latex cock.

"Open you mouth robert." She said firmly - no sooner had i leaned forward than my mouth was filled with the small dildo.

As i tried to maneuver the penis inside of my mouth, Goddess Deanna produced a sealed bag containing one of Her stockings - She usually carried one or two worn stockings on Her person, and for the purpose to which She shortly put this one; She stretched it slowly over my head, and lined up the seam of the toe with my nostrils and with my next deep breath Her powerful scent, erotic and feminine, was in my blood, overwhelming me, seducing me. This was what She referred to as my "hood," and She put me into it routinely and often **(see below) - i slept in it several times a week, and, whenever i faltered, and even when it appeared that i might falter, the hood came out and sent me into the erotic trance Goddess Deanna wanted me to live in. There was no circumstance or situation where She would hesitate to use it, and i had spent many hours in the hood which might have been awkward were it not for the brainwashing effect that the essence of Her feet had on me.

"I will not ever let You fail, robert. We are not going backwards. If you did not want this, You should have chosen another Mistress . . . but you contacted me, and now the choices are Mine."

The car eased towards our destination, and, as i breathed in the smell of Her perfect foot, i fell further under Goddess Deanna's spell, further towards a different, and less temporary destination of Her design.

** Goddess Deanna used the hood very often, and it was a near certainty that, if we were attending a scene-related event, i would be put into it - there are many stories to relate regarding the practice, but one does occur to me now - we were at a scene event when husband and wife who were thinking about experimenting with bdsm approached Goddess Deanna - the wife was especially curious about my condition, and the stocking over my head. Goddess Deanna was very friendly and informative, and explained what was happening politely, like a pleasant person helpfully giving directions. When Goddess Deanna suggested to the woman that she consider using this power that was inherent in her own feet, the husband - who was indulging his wife, apparently, scoffed a little at the suggestion - this did not bother Goddess Deanna in the least, who merely smiled - some time later, the woman started to train, in private, with Goddess Deanna, and, within a very short time, her husband was, like me, spending a great deal of time in a similar hood (made of his wife's stocking), breathing in Her foot, as he prepared his wife's bedroom for nights of adulterous pleasure for his wife and Her lovers while he lived in cuckolded, brainwashed submission.

Video Applicants

2010-09-23T13:27:00.000-07:00

I get a lot of applications from slaves interested in offering their flesh and serving in my videos. I think it makes sense to clarify what it is I look for in a slave. As it seems many applicants are merely hoping for some time with the Goddess while they cannot afford a private session.

I will reiterate: Video is NOT a free session. I prefer to work with slaves I have already played with before, to determine whether we in fact have any chemistry. In addition, I prefer working with slaves who have some versatility to the types of scenes they are willing to shoot. The videos always do better when the slave is not wearing a mask. Certainly I am understanding that some people must maintain discretion in regards to their personal life or their professional status. In these cases I am willing to make an exception, but only for those who may consider themselves masochists and can take a good deal of pain.

If you are applying to be a video slave, please have at least one or more of the following attributes: either be willing to be whipped/caned/bastinado/paddled or be willing to do smoke/spit/faceslap/foot worship AND be unmasked. I will not select you to be in my videos for crossdressing humiliation and allow you to wear a mask, so don't bother asking. I film quality femdom videos, and don't believe anyone has a reason to be ashamed to be seen as my slave. I would much rather reward the slave who lets me kick him in the balls with a sensual smothering scene than a guy who is hoping to fulfill his fantasies masked and on my time.

If you believe you are versatile, fit, and up for the challenge of being in front of the camera as my slave, then kindly send me an email with your BDSM interests, limits and any previous filming experience directly to video@houseofchains.net for consideration.

Fetish Modeling

2010-09-09T07:31:00.000-07:00

I am sure many of you have noticed the burst of activity lately involving many new pictures and videos. What can I say, I am on a roll and taking good care of myself. I have made it a routine to film video twice a week and shoot pictures once per week. This is something I plan to keep up so all of my fans can continue to enjoy regular updates in my gallery of pictures and watch new video clips each week.

I have been working with a very talented photographer who seems to capture my best side. I would consider occasionally working with others based on assignment. To view my portfolio, check out my model mayhem account.

I am seeking a professional photo editor to help me organize and present the thousands of pictures I have in my stock into a beautiful gallery which will be visible on my upcoming member site. All interests applicants should email me with subject header: Photo Editor Position.

Montreal Fashion Show

2010-09-09T07:23:00.000-07:00

Here I am pictured wearing a unique tuxedo design by the lovely and talented Sadie Masokissed - a fetish label started by Boston's very own Tara Emory. I was extremely honored to appear in her first showcase of designs ever, which took place during the Montreal Fetish Weekend Fashion Show.

Her patterns are fun and playful, leaving a lot on display and still more to be desired. At this point all of her splendid designs are custom, so if you're looking for a special outfit to showcase your girls (as most of her designs feature open-bust with coordinating pasties) then please contact Tara herself to express your interest in a custom fitted outfit. She has lots of great ideas and many other designs already made, in case you're less of the creative type and need a bit more suggestion on what to wear. Whatever you choose, I guarantee when you wear it, heads will turn!

Even down to the tiniest detail, she has streamlined her ideas into a beautiful concept which coordinates many separates and combines fetish fabrics to create a theme which is always recognizable through the special accessories which all point to the message your outfit is carrying. Whether you seek a flattering fit or a fun way to express your fetish, Sadie Masokissed will be a great choice of design for your costume needs, and one that will put your best assets forward. ;-)

Formula for Video

2010-09-09T06:55:00.000-07:00

While I've only just started making Fetish Videos about 6 months ago, I've had the great fortune of working with some very talented ladies from Club Dom and Mean Girls Club. I've picked up a few industry secrets from my experiences with Lady Cheyenne and Goddess Lexi Sindel, and as I continue to work with the talented videographer known to Boston as Mike Boss, I am consistently improving my video content and rendering skills.

It seems there is a unique formula for success on Clips4Sale. I wish that I could have more feedback from those slaves who purchase and watch my videos. As a member of ClubDom, I can read the comments slaves post about the scenes I film with Lady Cheyenne, but for my own clips I have no way of hearing what you liked or didn't like about what I upload. The occasional slave has written to me via email with feedback, or requests for certain scene ideas.

Although I cannot promise that your idea will be included, I would like to open up this forum as a place to leave your comments about videos that you watch, and a place to suggest new scene ideas. I welcome you to post your positive feedback, and ideas here, and prefer any negative feedback to be mailed privately, knowing that a spanking will likely follow. ;-)

Goals of a Goddess

2010-08-30T23:37:00.000-07:00

Although I have been exploring some aspects of BDSM throughout my lifetime, I only ventured down the path of Professional Domination a few years ago. My style has changed substantially, as my interests were first broadened, and then narrowed. I accept that there are various stages in this process of discovering my true Domina within.

Many note my drive for perfection, which is distinguised primarily by my lust for self improvement.

To understand how I got to this point, one must examine the nature by which I challenge myself; continually nurturing growth for the pursuit of accuracy. When I recognize amusement or arousal in myself or those I care for, that is when I aim to explore further. Having the opportunity to play with some seasoned subs has given me the key to unlock much of what may otherwise have remained a mere curiosity.

My dungeon is stocked with a vast array of tools and devices, restraints and stimulator's, all acquired with the intent of mastering my trade. Many of my toys were decided upon to create specific scenes with some of my preferred pets. I maintain a strong appreciation for the equipment that has been added to my collection, for those who have made some contribution, and in turn for those who have additionally enhanced my repertoire.

Without a submissive, after all, there can be no Dominant.

I routinely open myself to learning from other Dom/mes as I muse in each ones unique approach to D/s. Finding a balance within myself took time, and creating a balance of kink within the rest of my life requires constant devotion. Essentially, I aspire to manifest an increased level of self recognition and to achieve growth towards that center where my full potential will unfold.

True Compatibility

2010-08-16T13:03:00.000-07:00

A lot of people ask me if there are any types of sessions that I do NOT do. My answer is, of course, just because a client can afford a session, that does not mean W/we are compatible. I do domination sessions for many reasons, one, because I'm damn good it, two, because I have a passion for BDSM and I actually like this stuff, and three, well because I like being independent and working for myself.

Although I don't exactly break it down to a science on my list of interests, there are certain fetishes I specialize in and tend to be more fond of, those being Bondage, Electric Play, Smothering, Foot/Boot Service, Corporal Discipline, OTK spanking Flogging and Whipping to be more exact, CBT and Chastity, Breath Play, Smoke Fetish and Leather/Latex Fetish. I also enjoy very tactile forms of play such as nipple torture, face slapping, spitting, trampling, and ballbust/beatdown.

If your interest list does not contain at least ONE of the above favorites, it is likely that I may choose to session with another slave whom I deem to be more compatible. Don't take personal offense to this... I simply want to be present in the moment so I can be certain that I am fully enjoying myself.

Are Shrimp Dicks Kosher?

2010-08-16T12:39:00.000-07:00

Things a Domina can say to a naked male/sub

30 things a Domina can say to a naked male/sub

1. I’ve smoked fatter joints than that.
2. Awww, it’s cute.
3. Why don’t we just cuddle?
4. You know they have surgery to fix that.
5. Make it dance.
6. Can I paint a smiley face on it?
7. Wow, and your feet are so big.
8. It’s OK, we’ll work around it.
9. Will it squeak if I squeeze it?
10. Oh no… a flash headache
11. (giggle and point)
12. Can I be honest with you?
13. How sweet, you brought incense.
14. This explains your car.
15. Maybe if we water it, it’ll grow.
16. Why is God punishing me?
17. At least this won’t take long.
18. I never saw one like that before.
19. But it still works, right?
20. It looks so unused.
21. Maybe it looks better in natural light.
22. Why don’t we skip right to the cigarettes?
23. Are you cold?
24. If you get me real drunk first.
25. Is that an optical illusion?
26. What IS that?
27. It’s a good thing you have other talents.
28. Does it come with an air pump?
29. So this is WHY you’re supposed to judge people on personality.
30. I guess this makes me the early

Web Design

2010-08-16T08:24:00.000-07:00

I am currently working on a new website which will allow you little puppies to see more of me, as requested. It will contain my recent video clips and regular updated pictures. I am also considering including occasional live shows to broadcast to my fans. If you have any additional suggestions of what else you may want to have included on this new member site, please email me privately or contact me via Twitter at: twitter.com/goddessdeanna

I still have an opening for a web design barter position. All qualified candidates should send a sample of their recent work, along with a design idea for my website. I will be selecting one within the next few weeks, so get to work design bitches! I want this site to reflect the precision, passion, and perseverance I have poured into my efforts here in BDSM in Boston for the past three years.

Do you have what I'm looking for, slave?

Cancellations Must END.

2010-08-16T08:16:00.000-07:00

Due to the fact that an overwhelming number of potention clients have lacked the proper respect for my time, I will no longer be taking any new clients without a deposit. I will also deny session requests from anyone who has a history of cancelling in the last minute. I am tired of being treated with such disregard. Now you must plan me carefully into your schedule. Blow me off just once, and you will never see the inside of my dungeon again. This goes for video slaves too. I am not giving out free sessions and I will not hunt you down to be in a video clip. If you don't arrive when you commit to, then you will be replaced. Plain and simple. You wonder why Boston has little talent to entertain the likes of you fools? Try being more loyal, and reliable. Othewrwise you chase perfectly good Dominas away by making it challenging to support the cost of a dungeon. I will give you another chance to show that you want me to stick around. So heres your chance Boston. Don't disappoint me, or you will end up back at being disappointed that there are no skilled Dominas in your area to have a private session with. Really, its up to you.

Preparing for your Mistress

2010-07-23T13:06:00.000-07:00

Tonight I will be presenting at the Haven. In celebration of International FemDom Day, I thought it would be a good idea to teach the sissy slaves out there some proper protocol in regards to hygiene and presenting yourself to your Mistress for a play session. Now, you all know every Domme has her own individual preferences, so you should always make sure to address the specific needs of your Mistress, and adhere to Her requests, in addition to My simple suggestions.

Number one, I hate body hair. You can't expect Me to make you look sexy in my sissy clothes while you're covered in a thick layer of back hair for example. Should you arrive hairy, expect to be strapped into the barbers chair for a shave or wax. I myself prefer the Epilady; a painful and thorough hair removal system.

Number two, I hate it when boys forget to douche. I mean seriously. If you want to use that part of your anatomy as a pussy, then its about time you treat it as one. Start by cleaning it out properly, sissies. We are not just talking about odors, or cleaning the outside (although some of you could use some assitance in this department too). I am specifically referring to inside. Yes, thats right. Do an enema. Fast for a meal or two to make sure nothing new will be entering that tunnel. What a great way to ruin a moment... Even with a condom on a toy, it can make a mess, and turn off your Mistress if you dont clean out properly boys. So make sure this is an important step in your preparation for a play session.

Topping Girls

2010-06-26T11:20:00.000-07:00

I have to say, some of My fondest memories have been whilst I have a lovely lady at the suffering end of My whip. Especially those switchey types, as it becomes more of a challenge to keep them in their place. Add in a little rope, or some leather restraints, and start to make them wonder, "whatever will this Miss have me do while I'm here under her control?"

Oh the many things to have a submissive one do for My amusement... And My pleasure, oh and possibly a bit of her own... I'll leave you boys fantasizing while I go find a little play thing to indulge My own dirty mind. Spanks & kisses, Ms Deanna

Caned To Tears

2010-06-15T07:25:00.000-07:00

During My recent visit to Florida, I made a day trip to film with ClubDom studios and also Lexi Sindel of Mean Girls Club. What an amazing experience that was to play alongside such an experienced sadist. Lexi's talent proceeds her beauty, and she is also as witty as she is creative when it comes to putting a little subbie bitch in his place in just a few words. Class and brutality slid into exquisite Latex to boot!

We were definitely two of the same cloth. I expect that you drooling puppies will see more of Us, tormenting and teasing your pathetic little cocks just for the fun of it. Why don't you be a good boy and go buy the latest caning clip, "Caned to Tears," found here. We certainly gave that little piggie something to squeal about! Look at the deep red marks Our canes left viciously across his pale white ass. What a sorry little loser he was when We were done with him. That's what it takes to remain in your place on Our slave farm, do you dare think you're strong enough?

Fetish Factory 15

2010-06-02T15:52:00.000-07:00

We kinksters were out in force this Memorial Day weekend in Fort Lauderdale, Florida. Piled into the Sheraton/Hilton hotels were hundreds of beautiful latex wearing Dommes with floggers in hand, their subs on leash. Some of the enthusiasts were adorned in costumes of their own design, uniquely hand made and really eccentric, such as the lovely Alena pictured on My right. I went out in some of My favorites, this piece here by Demask, coupled with a feather vest which I picked up at Fetish Factory the day before on a shopping outing.
The Saturday night venue was fabulous, hosting three levels of dance floors, many private tables and a VIP area where I was nestled with some friends from Boston, which overlooked the stage giving us a great view of the performances. There was enough privacy in our second level table area to enjoy some really good power exchange with the adorable french speaking submissive at the end of my leash. I florentined her backside with two red deerskin floggers from Details, while her leather clad Master enjoyed the soft sounds of delight that escaped her soft lips, which were pressed sweetly against his chest as I warmed her up for their private scene that followed.

Right on Time

2010-04-29T08:19:00.000-07:00

I'll be surprised if this doesnt become one of My top selling videos. Its about as authentic as it gets. My slave was summonsed by Me to fill in for a video slave. After arriving late, I was genuinely furious with him. I reminded him how greatful he should be, that I should be the number one priority in his pathetic life. I whipped him mercilessly, knowing that the pain wouldnt wait when My singletail landed across his back... why should I have to wait a single second for him? Gagged so I wouldn't have to listen to him whine, I layed into him like I really wanted to. It was probably a month long build up, and not the first time this slave had made Me wait around for his sorry ass to show up, either. Learn your lesson by watching him suffer, that way it won't be your back covered in red lashes for arriving late. After watching this clip, you'll be sure to arrive Right On Time.

Bondage Bitch

2010-04-17T05:59:00.000-07:00

I had a lovely extended session with a slave from Switzerland. Our time together was not rushed, and spanned over two sessions during his stay, giving U/us time to explore many fetishes together. For O/our first session, My friend from Berlin, Mistress Katrina joined U/us and We turned the humble bitch into a mummified slut, incorporating lots of sensory play. Ms Katrina enjoyed zapping his nipples with My violet wand while I increased the electric volts to his tender balls with My tens unit. Since he had mentioned interest in very restrictive bondage, We wrapped him from head to toe in Saran wrap, and then strapped him down tightly to My bondage table where We continued to torment and tease his exposed parts, until he was "a ball of pleasure mixed with pain." For O/our second session I decided to again put My slave into tight bondage, but this time chose rope as My medium and hogtied the bitch into a very compromising pretzel-like position, leaving his virgin ass and genitals exposed for My amusement. I also entertained Myself by first dressing the slut into silky women's clothes and high heel boots. I gave the sissy slut a strict paddling while smothering him with My leather covered ass.

Ballbusted Fool

2010-04-12T08:01:00.000-07:00

For all you little sluts out there who have offered yourselves to Me to exploit you in videos, how is it that only two eager boys have presented their tender balls to Me for destruction? If this is such a common fetish, why are so many of you just too damn scared to try it? Its shocking to Me, quite frankly. Do you really FEAR that it will hurt worse than My sharp whip cutting into your flesh. Its just a fist, or a boot... whatever My mood depends on really. Its just your nuts - not your face. Boys are such sissies. If I had nuts... well, Id just make you lick them, so thats another story. But seriously, where are all the tough men out there, why wont they volunteer to go up against Me? Why, because they know I'd crush them and turn them into panties-wearing-sissy-bitches, thats why. LMAO. Someday you will agaree that Women should run this world. They do in My little corner of it, anyways. Come take your turn, if you dare!

Caned Hard

2010-03-22T10:45:00.000-07:00

Seems to Me the only way to really make a lesson sink in is to give a slave a good old fashioned dose of Corporal Punishment. A strong hard caning for example, not only leaves a lasting visual memory, but the rhythmic nature of the application of the cane to the skin seems to be one more thing that beats- the- message- into- their-shallow-minded-brains. A good slave knows that this punishment will also leave a glow upon his Mistress, and the aftermath of a hard caning punishment can be pure bliss. The slave gets deeper into subspace, and his Mistress gets to bath in Her afterglowing Dommespace. Now if She so chooses to engage in a bit of Tease & Denial, you know damn well it will be hot and steamy, since you've acted as a catalyst to get Her into a most sexy mood. Afterall, you were so devoted that you offered up your flesh to be beaten to a raw and tender swollen mess. How could She not simply adore you for this? What loyalty, what sacrifice. Surely, a reward is in order. Will it cum from Her magic wand.... or maybe from an electrifying butt plug? Be brave, My pet, present your offering and find out.

Human Ashtray

2010-03-09T10:58:00.000-08:00

I decided to share a session story with you readers. This is the story of Ashtray Ray. He has since moved out of the country to serve an Indian Mistress in a 24/7 capacity. However, before ray moved, he decided, wisely if I may add, that he should have one last encounter with a beautiful Mistress before devoting himself to another for the remainder of his time. Similar to a last hurray off in Vegas, if you would. So ashtray ray contacted Me, and W/we starting discussing his interests and planning a session series to send him off on his way in his most submissive mindset. The first meeting would be for two hours, with just U/us alone. I instructed him to remove all of his body hair and clean inside and out thoroughly before arriving to My dungeon. As he has a fetish for leather, I dressed in chaps and a leather bustier, with tall thigh high leather boots under the chaps and long elbow length leather gloves. When he arrived, I ordered him to strip before Me, and then I dressed him in a pair of leather trousers, so he could feel the leather against his own skin as well. I tied up his cock and balls with a long piece of leather cord, making them more sensitive to the touch and keeping his equipment at full attention. He was in for it today. I planned to test his endurance and loyalty with an interrogation style session, incorporating electric torture and lots of CBT. In addition, I planned to humiliate him thoroughly by making him serve as My ashtray. I brought out the leather sleep sack which he loaned Me for the play session, and ordered him to get inside. I had him wrapped in the sack, laying across My bondage table. I closed the zipper and proceeded to tie up the cords, making the sleep sack even tighter. I then fastened some chains to each ring, pulling the straps tightly down across his encased body, limiting his movement even further. As he heard the locks click closed, he knew there was no turning back. Fear had likely set in, as I saw him trying to squirm his legs around unsuccessfully in the bottom of his Mistress-made leather cocoon. I laughed sadistically and told him to lay still. There is no turning back now, slave. you are mine, to do with as I please. I lit up a cigarette and enjoyed it momentarily before I ran the hot cherry across his wet tongue. It sizzled slightly as it marked his flesh with some burnt ash. I laughed again. "Foolish slave, you thought this was going to be easy, didn't you?" Not a chance. I wheeled over My tens unit and turned it on. The electricity started to run lively through the machine, and slave ray could hear the whirring sounds coming out in a rhythmic pattern. I unzipped the sack near his cock and balls and pulled out his erection so I could attach the Rimba cock sheath. Then I added juice to the machine, and ray jumped. I turned it up higher and he let out a little shocked cry. So, over to My chest of bondage devices I went, coming back with a nice big ball gag to shove between his lips and ensure no future sounds escaped. "Open your mouth", I ordered. I ashed My cigarette into his open receptacle and then stuffed the ball-gag in and strapped it in place. "This should shut you up, bitch." (To be continued... off to session now.)

Proper Etiquette

2010-03-01T14:17:00.000-08:00

Of all the submissives I've had the opportunity to play with, My most memorable sessions have been with those slaves who above all else project a true sense of respect for Me and what it is that I do. Those slaves who have had their share of kinky experiences, so therefore know that the formula for a great session is derived from a combination of their willingness to submit to their Mistress and their openness to give up control and trust in Her ability to creatively direct a powerful scene. Doing so enables a mutually satisfying D/s encounter, and can build towards an ongoing relationship based on trust and power exchange; one that feels genuine. This is not the case when a submissive attempts to request a scripted scenario to complete his own fantasy. The chance of his dream being realized is decreased by the natural lackluster the Domme feels, due to this slaves inability to relinguish control and unwillingness to trust his Mistress to guide him with Her instincts. Of course, negotiations are imperative. How else will I be able to get you into subspace until I learn what kinks push your buttons. Every submissive is unique. In this context, offering feedback and providing clues to express your areas of intrigue can be quite useful.

Whips and Chains

2010-02-21T07:47:00.000-08:00

So a few people have asked Me: Why is your site called "House Of Chains," is it a house of many Dommes? My answer: I like seeing men in Chains. They just happen to look better to Me when they're immobilized and chained up like prisoners. I enjoy harnessing their lust for Me. I like watching them squirm... yet being unable to escape. In essence, I just adore Bondage. Mental bondage over dinner can be fun, but nothing compares to strong hard steel shackles, or leather cuffs bound together with thick metal chains, then locked into place. I may be petite, as this adorable picture shows, but I am fierce. Not to be reckoned with. Of course, you may try your luck at the recieving end of My whip, and feel its sting if you so dare. I will be here in the dungeon, waiting for you to fall ever so graciously into My carefully woven web. Come now, slave, don't be frightened....

CORNERTIME: Choke on This!

2010-02-06T14:41:00.000-08:00

So it was time to punish My slave. Not for anything extraordinary - just his usual mistakes. Foolish blunders in front of My Dominant female friends. Forgetting to kneel and kiss My boots when he entered the room. And, least not forget his worst sin of all this week - forgetting to handwash his manties (mans panties: in fact an old pair of Mine that he now wears to keep Me in his thoughts always) instead wearing his usual boxer briefs under his clothes on a trip to meet at My Dungeon. So I ordered him to strip before Me, and started telling him of his faults, and the eminant punishment which was to come. I teased him coyly with My latex gloved fingers until I had him in a state of complete arousal... then proceeded to fasten him securely into My antique barber's chair for a little electric interrogation. How dare he disobey Me like that! Only a complete fool would attempt such mockery. To think for a second that his oversights would go unnoticed. So he sat there trembling, drool spilling out of his pantie-gagged mouth, making him look even more ridiculous. I scorned him first for his lack of respect - he knows the proper way to greet and address his Mistress. After all, had I not taught him to do it properly?!! So why were W/we here - back at square one? Why had he been so preoccupied with dropping his own belongings to the floor that he made this careless oversight. I am a Goddess and I should be treated as such with an immediate symbol of his submission as soon as he enters My private space and he finds himself lucky enough to be in My presence. The electric humbler proved to be an excellent way to remind him of his proper positioning - on his knees. "Zappp!": he couldn't help but fall to the floor, legs bent, screaming through his tightly gagged mouth for Me to let up on the electricity just long enough that he may catch his breath. Then "Zappp" again. Silly fool. Stay on your knees for all I care. That should teach you where your place is bitch boy! I unfastened the gag in his mouth, so he could spit out the saliva drenched panties. I inspected them to make sure they were now properly clean, and then ordered him to step into them. I turned him around and made him bend over the chair this time, to properly discipline him with My leather strap, while he stood with the panties around his ankles. I beat some sense into him... then had him draw My bath. Finally, some relaxation after My slave started acting appropriately. I hope his sore bottom reminds him of his duties and he heads My words next time. (if he knows whats good for him!)

I (heart) FetLife

2010-02-04T10:25:00.000-08:00

If you submissives out there have not yet joined this online community, well then I highly recommend it. Even if you have already had your fair share of useless experiences on the competitive sites such as CollarMe or Alt... well, trust Me, this one is different. It may even help you to understand your own fetish interests better, or discover new things that arouse you which you were previously unaware of... intrigued yet? Plus, its a great way to see whats going on in your area and what other kinksters are up to. Always wanted to check out a fetish play party... now you will be able to find one! And becomming a member of the online Fetlife community will allow you to connect with others who share the same curiosities, who knows, maybe you can explore your kinks together? So here's the link: www.Fetlife.com now be a good slut and go join!

Scratching Post

2010-02-04T09:09:00.000-08:00

Purrrrrrr.... I have been feeling rather cat-like lately. And so I have been turning My slaves into human scratching posts! After all, their flesh is Mine to decide what to do with, isnt it! It seems this is rarely requested as a fetish, maybe because scratching teters as a Vanilla interest? Yet, each time I run My carefully manicured nails across some unsuspecting victims' back they seem to coo with delight. The boy can feel the sharpness of My deep red nails, even through the thick latex gloves that adorn My delicate hands. Without warning, he starts to let out little grunts and sighs, as if his fear that I may draw blood is boiling to the surface and the tiny little hairs that run along his skin become as alert as the throbbing meat he hopes is next! Of course, why be predictable. I'd much rather surprise the blindfolded fool with a quick flick from My riding crop then let his mind try to top from the bottom. After all, he has no idea that once he submits to Me and enters My House of Chains, he has let go of his sense of privacy and his thoughts also become reachable - I can read his every desire, and catch him if he starts to wander, thinking of what may cum next... certainly not that useless peice of meat, that can be assured! Not until I've had My fill of making you writhe and squirm on My table, My little captured pet.

CORNERTIME - Pain Slut Caning

2010-02-03T11:29:00.000-08:00

This was a valuable lesson to be learned by My slave. he was told that his behavior needed modification, and I wanted the lesson to sink in. So I applied the magic marker to his flesh, and wrote these words: P-A-I-N across inside of left arm and S-L-U-T across inside of his right arm. Then I picked up My cane. I made him kneel before Me with his arms out to the side, palms to the sky, to be judged before those above. I told him to spell the words slowly, giving Me just one letter at a time. With each letter, he received a stroke of My cane down on the palm of his hand, alternating left then right. Each letter also represented another word, which I said loudly, as I struck down on him. Each word a quality that he should break himself of:

P- Presumptuous!
A- Arrogant!
I- Insolent!
N- Nasty!

S- Scornful!
L- Lethargic!
U- Useless!
T- Troublesome!

I then had him rise to his feet, which were bound in leather restraints and chained together, and instructed him to bend over the steel pole and brace himself for the second half of his punishment. I repeated these words as I caned his bare ass repeatedly, making sure that each stroke of My cane also coincided with My reciting a single word from his punishment rhyme. I wanted to be certain these words would sink in. I wanted to break him of these habits, even before the attributes became apparent in his behavior. A good preventative beating, I call it. To be clear that these faults would not be tolerated from him in My presence, under My guidance. That he shall associate these words and traits with My stern discipline, and any time he notices himself leaning towards one of these behaviors, the sting of My cane would enter his conscious memory and pull him upright out of his mistaken path before wronging others with his carelessness.

Very effective lesson... Try it.

The Deanna Doll

2010-02-03T11:14:00.000-08:00

Big News! While I was in Las Vegas this past month for the AVN Convention and The Ultimate Afterparty hosted by NYC Fetish Tribe, I had the opportunity of meeting with Lovable Dolls, the owner of a San Diego based company that produces life sized silicone versions of your favorite human boy or girl. When I was first introduced to the couple by Scott Kimball, he said these dolls are ALMOST as perfect as you. I noticed that all of the lovable dolls had a nice, ready to please, expression on their faces - and right away I knew what they were missing: A Bitchey Dominatrix Doll. So we're ironing out the wrinkles and taking measurements... I will fly out to LA in a few weeks to be casted and then - Ta-Da! You will be able to order your own life-sized version of Me, to take in the bath, dress up in leather, or hover over you while you kiss My silicone feet! I've puit in a request for a sound box to play a few recorded lines: "Kiss My Ass, bitch boy!... Who said you could touch Me there? ...Get over My knee... you've been a Bad Boy! ... FOCUS, you moron. Must I do everything Myself. For the last time... Lick My boots, loser!"

I plan to launch a separate website for The Doll, so there will be updates on Her whereabouts and Deanna Doll sightings I'm sure. She could end up being a little Diva Jet Setter like Myself. Stay tuned, boys...

Astro-Valentines Wishes!

2010-02-03T10:33:00.000-08:00

So many of you may already know my girl Lilith Astaroth. For those of you who don't, she is a vastly talented performer and artist, who sidelines as a Fetish Model and has been known to kick submissive asses across the country. Currently she is on a roadtrip on the west coast, starting in the star-studded city of Las Vegas, Nevada. There she will be working with a few other Dommes to turn the Vilified One into her full time web bitch. Attached is a glimpse, don't you want to volunteer up your own heart now for this little angel to break it? I know you do... For more info on this charming vixen, you may visit her website here.

Trials & Tribulations

2010-02-03T10:11:00.000-08:00

Since early October I have been working closely with My submissive, who I refer to as webtool. As a person I find him quite stimulating, as a slave I find him to be loyal, and always willing to stretch himself thinner to accommodate Me. The countless of hours he has spent fine-tuning My website to offer you the most up-to-the-minute accuracy of My whereabouts has been truly a sign of his unwavering devotion for Me. Though I reward him occasionally, usually he is the unlucky receiver of punishment at the end of one of My newsest toys, so he takes a fair amount of misdirected wraps and otherwise unplanned hits to his backside while I'm still breaking in new whips, learning their falls, and how far I should stand from My target - and so on and so forth. he is a fine sport about this. I fear how well he will hold up as the rest of a batch of Victor Tella's start to arrive, one by one, after being handcrafted to bite and sting the skin. Snake Whip has arrived - up next: Galley Whip, Viper Quirt, and 4ft Bull Whip. I have decided to start a little blog (here it is!) which tells of his punishments and records his healing and any changes in his demeanor as an after effect of this training. I shall call this task: CORNERTIME. Check back weekly to read of and witness pictures of the manipulation and torture of My webtool.

Calm before the Storm

Ballbusting At Home

Bound In Boston

Chastity Corner

Check your Bucket List...

Fall into Place

Fetish Con Tampa

Party at Pumps

July Visitors

Calm before the Storm: Dungeon Going Green

Dungeon Going Green

Fetish Factory 16th Anniversary Party

The Storm Collection

Visiting Guest Dominas

Domme Trips

Dominican Domination

An Honest Question from A Slave

Slaves Corner: A story of Ball Stretching

Valentines Voyeurs

What does the BDSM Emblem mean?

Polyamory = Social Evolution?

Foot Fetishist Fun

The Lion Tamer

Advice for a newcomer...

Dominating The Garage

Two Kickass Dommes you will NEVER fuck. Ha.

Worship My Boots, bitches!

Foot Diaries - Leaving The Airport

Video Applicants

Fetish Modeling

Montreal Fashion Show

Formula for Video

Goals of a Goddess

True Compatibility

Are Shrimp Dicks Kosher?

Things a Domina can say to a naked male/sub

30 things a Domina can say to a naked male/sub

Web Design

Cancellations Must END.

Preparing for your Mistress

Topping Girls

Caned To Tears

Fetish Factory 15

Right on Time

Bondage Bitch

Ballbusted Fool

Caned Hard

Human Ashtray

Proper Etiquette

Whips and Chains

CORNERTIME: Choke on This!

I (heart) FetLife

~~Scratching Post~~

CORNERTIME - Pain Slut Caning

The Deanna Doll

Astro-Valentines Wishes!

Trials & Tribulations

Scratching Post